Hey everyone I’m MEGHA ROY. I have always been a keen observer and one thing I have noticed through out my school life is that our psychology directly reflects on everything we do.
Here is my findings and thoughts about the above mentioned topic.
First observation
We humans tend to have several thoughts going through our mind at a single time frame. Infact we have contradicting thoughts which make it so difficult for us to decide on what should be done for the next step.
We tend to do things in a particular manner. For example, if we keep repeating something in our mind about any matter. It usually happens in the similar manner in real life. That is because our psychology makes us believe that it should be done that way. And surprisingly it happens more when we process that information in a negative manner.
I know this might seem a little confusing at first. But let us put it this way. If we process our thoughts in a negative manner, we never tell our selves that we can have a positive outcome. Our own belief system is working against us. So almost 90% of our results actually turn out to be negative. That is because our psychology plays a vital role in our life.
Second observation
We can easily see that when we stress or we have a actute amount of pressure on us it reflects on our appearance.
The more we process negative thoughts it makes us completely consumed in its cycle. It’s like a never ending cycle of negative thoughts. Which leads people to greatest depths of depression.This also leads to anger problems. Alcoholic tendencies and ultimately to a wrong lifestyle.
When this cycle keeps on repeating for long periods of time the result becomes suicidal thoughts and tendencies.
As it emerges, everything depends how we handle a single situation. I believe a situation can be handled in many different ways. If we consider the situation like a maze. We can find different endings.This makes us conclude that human mind has control on the happenings of our life. Which is directly linked to our psychology.
Observation three
Our psychology is the driving force that makes us present in the way others perceive us.When we believe that we are as good as the person in front of us , we then automatically have a confident personality infront of them. Which makes a very positive impression of ourselves in front of them.
But if we keep thinking we are not enough ,our inner self starts believing it and we are never confident in front of anyone. This weak belief system takes a toll on our personality and we slowly lose our individuality. This can be one of the main reason for low self esteem issues.
Observation four
The feeling of self love can really make a person who they want to be in life. It makes a person strong and independent.
Learning to love the flaws and imperfections of oneself is most important.
If we can train our mind to understand that our flaws and imperfections make us unique and special. We can steer our psychology to positive thoughts to coordinate every approach of our life in a more meaningful constructive fashion .
Observation five
What others think about us.
This has a huge impact on our psychology. It almost breaks and makes us.
This feeling of pleasing others has become more important to us rather than our own happiness.
Every step we take is based on what others would think about it.
This really puts a negative effect on one’s life and has grave side effects in the coming time.
This type of thinking should never be practiced by people according to me as it has adverse effects on human mind and corresponding behavior.
This was my little observation about human psychology.
This is the first part of my journey exploring the depths of human psychology.
Please let me know your valuable feedback. ❤
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